April 29, 2007 spout writing

On becoming an empty nester…

I submitted the final manuscript for Programming WPF, 2nd edition, by Ian Griffiths and Chris Sells to O’Reilly and Associates this morning for publication. Of course, there’s stuff still to do (today we hit step 8 of 18), but this represents a major milestone in the life of any book.

I have mixed feelings when I finish a book. The last few have been especially intense, as I have a real day job on a Microsoft product-team-to-be, so it’s just been evenings and weekends. With this much work to do, you have to focus hard and the work becomes a part of you. This means that giving it up is also hard. My boys are just now becoming teenagers, so it’ll be a while yet before they leave home, but I imagine I’ll feel the same kind of melancholy I feel now — happy to see something you’ve put so much of your life into make its own way into the world, but hard to have the cord cut.

On average, I’ve been an author, co-author or a with” on 12 books over the last 12 years. At one time, I had open contracts on four separate books. This book represents my last planned book. I’m now truly an empty nester.

So, what’s next for me in this new phase of my life? Well, I’ve already started some stuff. A couple of weeks ago, I started a little gooey shell for monad (I call it gonad”  : ). And last Friday, I started private piano lessons (a blast!). I’d like to pick up my other hobbies again, too, but for the life of me, I can’t remember what my other hobbies used to be…